Saturday, May 23, 2009

Today, I Live.

In honor of this week's book give away I wanted to take one of the questions asked toward the end of the book Today, I Live. (By the way congrats to Rachelle who won the drawing)

The last page of Karen Eddington's book says "Pass it on" I love the encouragement she gives to try to keep her message of self acceptance and peace moving forward and expanding.
So this is one way i am passing it on.

She has many wonderful statements to ponder as well as questions. That it way it was hard for me to decide which one to feature today. Which is exactly the reason why I recommend getting this book (I linked you to amazon to buy it if you click her title in the first sentence)

The question I decided to post is under her Worth and Purpose page,
"How are the people and things around me impacting how I feel about myself?"

I remember years ago being told that my believes about myself were based too heavily on what other's thought of me. It was explained by using the example of a mirror. I reflected what others felt or what I thought they felt about me and internalized it as truth.

I catch myself doing it somewhat still today. I'm sure most of us do to a certain degree. If we receive praise and admiration throughout the day I'm sure we all hold our heads a little higher. However, if we had a rough day and a few people had judgmental comments or gestures toward us we can't help but feel down. Or can we?

If you are absolutely firm in your self concept and the worth you know you have, there is nothing anyone can do or say to change your mind. Reflect instead the love and worth the Savior and Heavenly Father have for us. We have infinite value that our mortal minds can't even conceive of. Even as I type I feel the spirit testifying this truth to me. I know without a doubt our worth as daughters of God is intensely great.
I had a challenge a little while ago for you to pray for a week straight to feel and know of your worth I want to extend that again as something you continually seek.

In addition to that, this weeks official challenge is to notice how your mood and feelings of value change depending on your external factors and other's believes of you. Challenge those feelings with what you know to be true.


Rachelle said...

Woo hoo! I'm excited about the book. That's so great we have so many friends in common! Are you a member of Author's Incognito?
Do you want to post a comment on my blog with your email address so I can email you my mail address? I moderate the comments so I can delete it if you don't want your email addy out there. :)

Mama Nut said...

Oh Man! didn't win... it's ok, I'll just have to buy it :) Congrats Rachelle!!

Halley, I love this post!!I am so up for the challenge!

Love ya!

Camille said...

I really like these challenges you are giving here. And I love this picture of Christ with those young women. Thank you for setting up this blog.

Haley Hatch Freeman said...

Thank you Camille, I hope you continue to pop in. I'd love to hear any comments you have!

Rachelle said...

I got my book today and wanted to say thanks so much! It looks really neat.
Check out my blogto see reviews on The Original Scrapbox creative products!

Haley Hatch Freeman said...

I'm glad you received the book, I love it and its message.